Saturday, August 9, 2008

Emotional clearing and effect

Hmm....I noticed whenever a festive season is round the corner, my inbox will be packed with emails on relationship problems. It can be about husband & wife or boyfriend girlfriend problems. Kinda upset....Ladies be STRONG OK. I specially took this photo of bear bear for all of you.

Holiday is supposed to be a day of relax and rejoice. However, there is a group of people out there who hated festive seasons or public holiday. It could be due to many reasons for one to dislike festive seasons. For some, it could be due to loneliness as there is no one to share the happy occasion with. I know it can get very depressing but hey, feeling upset will only make you feel even sadder and sadder.....and sadder...and sadder....................

Emotional blockages is something all human beings will experience and go through. Learn to let go the toxic feelings in exchange for peace. Easier said then done but if we cannot help ourselves, we will be the one to suffer both physically & emotionally. Don't say you can't help it. You can You can.

Tell yourself this is a change of direction and it will not be a bad thing afterall. Dwelling on a problem for too long will only make you overlook and miss out many wonderful things.
Look up into the blue blue sky. Take 3 deep breath. See? The sky up there is so big and there are so many other meaningful things waiting for you to do.
Whether you are a guy or lady in despair, have faith and confidence to take the first step to move on. Have faith and GOD will send someone to accompany you.

Healing Angel Teddy bear
Angels created soft-toys. hheeehehheheeee....

Emotional/Loneliness healing aroma oil blend: 1 drop of Lavendula Vera, 1 drop Grapefruit pink and 1 drop Petitgrain onto your soft toy by the bed. The scent will diffuse nicely around you to heal your lonely heart. If you have a rose quartz, wear it now. It will bring very good effect.

NB: Today is a public holiday. I will be with a group of volunteers, May, Lee Lee, and friends at United Medical Care to share happiness. Don't forget to register the one day certification ccourse on hand reflex course. Learn a skill to benefit a lifetime. Go round to spread love & happiness with your skills and talents. http://www.omhealth.com/bryanup.htm#cert on 30 August 2008.

35 comments:

Anonymous said...

Lao Shi my tears flooded. Thanks for replying email. And yes i am one of them which hated Xmas and holidays.

But not anymore. I have registered for your hand reflex class, hope to use this skills to share love than to feel sorry for myself.

ANONYMOUS ---- see u 30 Aug

Anonymous said...

This is a healing Blog. A visual and down to earth blog

Unknown said...

CUTEEEEE!!!!!!! Carebear is my fav!

Anonymous said...

Ok another new usage of the oil. For my softtoy. Is suck a cool idea.

Anonymous said...

Hello Laoshi,
I smiled when I saw the colourful soft toys. I teared when I read ur blog. Somewhat, I realised I dont like Public Holidays and even weekends these days, prob cos going thru emotional struffles. Will remind myself to change my mindset. Must love myself first, then i'll be loved. May all be happy and blessed.
Cheers,
JS (u know who i am)

Anonymous said...

Thanks bryan, appreciate your sound advice. You are right, feeling sad will only make me feel sadder and sadder. I should learn to accept the fact and let go.

Hope you have a good weekend.

Bel

Anonymous said...

I still remember you said, rose quartz is not just to bring love but it helps to bring sense and awareness to a situation like mine.

I don't believe you at first but now i know what you mean. It makes me realise its only a one sided feeling all these while..it takes 2 hands to clap. I cannot blame him.

Part of me still hope for him...part of me say i shouldn't wait anymore..but i really like rose quartz a lot. It helps me a great deal to accept things and not have any anger.

Lao shi, i am very grateful to what you have done for me during my most difficult times. Thank you

Unknown said...

Reminds me of the cartoon CAREBEAR Count DOWN! Sure miss that cartoon a lot :>

Cheer up cheer up everyone. Every day is a choice of being happy or sad.

Anonymous said...

Thanks for posting this, bryan. That's very nice and sweet of you. You are right. The problem lies in me. I just don't have confidence of myself.
I will do the positive affirmation for my own good.
Thanks.

Ju

Anonymous said...

Gd Afternoon, Bryan Lao Shi. It is nice to view yr photoshot of Bear r so colourful n cute. I alway meet customer with depression, very impatient to say i no time to wait n then pls hurry up or very rude(no manner) or self-centred personality/character in customer service industry. I personally do not like to curry favour with mgt staff/manager bec it is against my principal n followed company rule n regulation very closely. I am very eager n looking forward to attend yr another 2 August Workshop. On National Day, i have went to the park for breathing exercise, yoga, kickboxing n played with Christy after my exercise.

Anonymous said...

If angels created soft toys, then you are also an angel in my heart.

Thanks for all the advice even though I did not purchase anything from you.
You are right, communication is so important even for couples who have been married for a long time . My husband and I took each other for granted. We thought we understand each other.

I made the first move. After a heart to heart talk, my husband and I realised a lot of things we never thought of or talk about.
We cleared a lot of issues and misunderstandings between us.

Thanks bryan. I am very grateful for your time and advice.


I hope my experience can be of some help to anyone who is in the same situation like me.

Listen and communicate to your partners and love ones.



Mrs A.Tay

Anonymous said...

Thk Bryan for giving me 1 pkt of yr Whitening Detox DIY mask bec u have noticed i have acne problem n oily skin. I have used n tested the mask on 19/7 on my face n the effect is really gd. fm mingxiang

Anonymous said...

Hi Bryan, I like what you said, Angels created soft toys. This sentence left me thinking for quite a while.

I have a lot of soft toys on my bed and I keep staring at them as I think through your words.
My bear bear have been there all these while on my bed, slept and hug them every nite to sleep.

But I overlook to realise that hugging them brings me so much comfort and security.
Thanks for reminding me. Your words touched my heart.

Unknown said...

Mrs Tay, thanks for sharing your experience.
Communication can help to clear a lot of doubts and misunderstandings. I learnt that from experience also.

Anonymous said...

Thanks for posting this picc today. Not only I like but my daughter also like it a lot. She saved the carebear pic as her pc wallpaper.

My mother-in-law's leg pain has improved a lot after trying out the footbath a few times. She can stand and walk a longer distance now.

Thanks a lot. It really make our hearts ache when we see her in pain last time.


Angela

Anonymous said...

Ohhhh....feel like cuddling each and every bear bear in the pic!!

Anonymous said...

Cheer up gals.
Singlehood can very fun as well. Everything has its good and bad side of the coin.

I used to have no confidence to enter into any relationship due to a very bad experience.

I bought my first rose quartz 2 years ago not for love purposes but to enhance my REN YUAN. It is after doing regular breathing exercise with it, I noticed a difference in my thinking. Rose quartz gradually open up my heart by taking away negative thoughts. It taught me to accept who I am, to have faith and trust in myself. I can feel much inner peace just by holding it close to my heart. I like its soothing energy.

It is also from this experience, I realise breathing exercise can make a lot of difference to one's life. This is one of the greatest rewards I got from attending the crystal class. Thanks Bryan.

Mavis

Anonymous said...

HI Bryan

Such an coincident when i actually wanna ask you any accessories or cystal to brings more "tao hua" luck and i saw there are many friends out there depressed too. My luck is really down, i am afraid i will not trust or be singlehood in my life for good.
p.s: Jill is a lady. =X

Anonymous said...

Hi gal. My female colleague has teased be more careful n being followed by mental unstable man infront of u n left alone for lunch. I have noticed a man(more than 1.8m tall) purposely sat next to our table, so interested in our conversation n followed me. I am shocked n frightened to walk quickly to my girlfriend boutique to hide for my personal safety. At the park, i am so unlucky to be followed dirty old man has followed me n so daring to exercise infront of me. I am so angry to take my bag n plastic table cloth n moved to another area for my exercise.

Anonymous said...

Hi Bryan, pls do not laugh at me for the typo error at yr blog with broken sentence contruction.

Sherrie said...

Bryan 老师

thank you for all the bear bear...i love the purple one, the pink one...and the little pig too.

Thank you, really very cute & they look they are happy too.....

Anonymous said...

Gd morning, bryan. It is so interesting to know yr scret admirer, Xue Li is so daring to express her love to u at yr blog. U r so lucky to attract her attention n so handsome. Bryan, i am very curious to know whether r u interested in her? Bryan, u r a bit slightly underweighted for yr height n pls eat more. Bryan, well done n keep it up.

Anonymous said...

Lao shi thanks for the 3 oil and footbath yin and yang. My mom who have insomnia is ok now.

anonymous above, aiyo xueli means love the bear. U blur.

We all knowwho xue li is. She has a blog with all great food.

Min Hui

Unknown said...

Anonymous@7.25am,
your ignorant comments makes me want to laugh.

I saw Xueli b4 in bryan lao shi's cooking class, she is a very nice lady.
You made the wrong interpretation. What she meant is she loved the bear bear.

You very very blur. Next time please read carefully b4 jumping into any conclusion.

Unknown said...

Anonymous, i think u owed xueli an apology..poor her.

Anonymous said...

Hi Bryan,

A very cute & sweet picture with smiling face on it :). Thanks for sharing the picture. It's very heartwarming & encouragement.

Life will be better if we choose to be happy, cheer up everybody!

Gerlin Chua

Anonymous said...

Gd morning, Min Hui, Karen n Zhi Wei. Can u pls give me her blog to view her secret receipe of great food to cook or eat? I have thought Xue Li is a person name rather than her description/explanation of her love of bear bear. Thk all of u to give me info or guidance to abv issue. I am so sry to Xue Li as my sincere apology to embrass infront of Bryan Lao Shi.

Unknown said...

Anonymous, i think Xueli's blog is http://shirley-xueli22.blogspot.com/

Xueli, all your cakes and kueh kueh always make me drool....kekekeee...

Anonymous said...

Hi Zhi Wei. Thk u for yr info abt Xue Li blog to me.

Anonymous said...

Hi everyone,

Can someone tell me the usage of the 3 oil method - lavendula, peppermint, petitgrain?

Thanks.

YL

Unknown said...

YL,
under the blog label - Common illness,
Bryan Lao Shi said,

1)squeeze body lotion (size of 20 cent coin) onto palm. Add 1 drop of Lavendula Vera, Petitgrain and Peppermint on the lotion and mix well.
2) Massage the mixture on upper back. This is a strong & direct method and not to be applied everyday.

Try it. Its very effective.

Anonymous said...

OMG
SO CUTE!!!
WHERE U TOOK THE PIC!

Anonymous said...

Hi,

I have been go around many branches (Nature Farm) to look the fine sea salt but all no stock. Anyone pls advise where else can i get it.

Thank you..

Jane

Anonymous said...

Keng Hua,

Thank you very much for the details on the 3 oil method.

Have a good day.

Regards,
YL

Anonymous said...

Hi Bryan,

For the POWER BODY SCRUB, Can I use Rosemary instead of Rose Geranium? Any different?

1 tablespoon of rice bran oil, 250 gram of fine sea salt (from Nature Farm), 4 drops Lavendula Vera, 2 drops Peppermint, 2 drops Rose Geranium in a nice jar.

Cheers,
Jane